Eloping is one of the simplest, most romantic ways to get married. It skips the stress of a big wedding and puts the focus where it belongs: on the two of you. But simple doesn’t mean plan-free. At Justice Lydon & Co., we’ve helped many couples elope in Quincy and around Boston, and we’ve seen the small slip-ups that cause big headaches. Here’s what to watch for.
1. Forgetting About the Marriage License
The most common mistake is assuming you can show up and marry the same day. In Massachusetts, you must apply in person at a city or town clerk’s office, then wait three days before your license is issued. Review our marriage license laws page before you pick a date. Short on time? Our One Day Marriage Process can help.
2. Waiting Too Long to Book Your Officiant
Even the smallest ceremony needs a professional to make it legal. Popular dates, especially weekends and holidays, fill quickly. Learn how far in advance to book a Massachusetts wedding officiant and lock in your date early.
3. Choosing a Location Without a Backup Plan
New England weather is unpredictable. If you dream of an outdoor moment like a Boston View Sunset Ceremony, have an indoor option ready. Our Quincy chapel makes a cozy fallback, and our Sweet & Simple Quincy Elopements work in any season.
4. Skipping the Personal Touches
An elopement can be short and still deeply meaningful. Write your own promises with help from our wedding vows page, pick a song for your walk in, or bring a small family keepsake. Our officiants will tailor every word to your story.
5. Not Planning for Photos
You’ll want to remember this day for years. Decide early whether you’ll hire a photographer, ask a friend, or simply capture a few moments on your phone. Browse our photo gallery for ideas on poses and settings.
6. Letting the Guest List Grow
Some couples plan to invite “just a few people” and end up with thirty. Decide early who truly needs to be there. Our guide on how many people can attend a small wedding can help you set limits. If your list keeps growing, a small wedding ceremony may be a better fit.
7. Forgetting What Happens After “I Do”
After your ceremony, your officiant returns the signed license to the clerk for recording. Then come name changes, updated records, and sharing the news. Our guide on what to do after getting married walks you through each step.
Plan Your Elopement With Confidence
Avoiding these mistakes is easier with the right team by your side. Explore our Best of Boston Elopements and Date Night Elopements, or read our guide to planning a stress-free elopement for a full timeline. When you’re ready, contact us to book your date.
